I often get questions from my readers about the feeling of rejection they are experiencing. I’m not going to sugar coat this one, ladies – it hurts, deeply and endlessly when you’re dumped. You feel rejected – more rejected than you’ve ever felt. So the question then becomes, “should you reject your ex boyfriend?” Will it help to make him feel the same pain you are? Read on to discover why rejection may be the secret weapon you’ve been searching for to get him back for good!
Using Rejection to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back is a Risk Worth Taking
Whether the relationship was good or bad, break ups can affect you no matter what. If you have just recently got dumped for reasons you still cannot understand then keep reading. Right now chances are you are feeling heartbroken, lonely, and as if things will never get better. Well what you need to start doing is changing that. What you two had was good while it lasted, but something changed. Your relationship came to an end for a reason. He decided one day that he’d had enough. You’re now wondering what you did wrong and what you might have been able to change along the way, right? Instead of focusing on the past, it’s time to focus on the here and now and the future. There’s a way to turn that feeling of rejection you’re experiencing right back around so he feels the same things you are.
Making your ex boyfriend feel rejection may seem like a childish thing to do, but this is all about getting back the man you love, right? The two of you just broke up and it has left you feeling terrible. Well if you have seen him lately chances are he looked fine, right? If that is the case and you feel as though what you two had meant nothing to him then now is the time to give him a taste of his own medicine. What you can do is just what he is doing. Act as though everything is fine. Get out there and enjoy life. Chances are if he sees you happy without him it will leave him second guessing his choice. The last thing a man wants to see is his ex happy without him, especially just after the break up. It’s going to hit him right smack in his male ego and that will cause a very strong reaction in him.
Show Him That You Can Live Without Him
Men don’t want to lose – whether it’s a poker game or a woman. Even though he sheepishly rejected you, the fact that you’re now rejecting him is going to send him into an emotional tailspin he won’t soon recover from. It’s going to make him behave in a way that he won’t expect but you’ll be anticipating.
He’s going to start calling more just to get a sense of what’s up with you. If he calls you a lot what you need to do is keep the phone calls short. Do not stay on the phone with him for too long. You do not want him to think you will give up all your time for him. That is what he wants. He wants to know that you are still going to be there for him even though the two of you are not together anymore. Instead what you have to do is let him know that you are not going to hang around for him still. Things are different and you need to show him. If you do that you would be amazed at just how different your next phone call will be.
If he suggests seeing you, make an excuse. The lamer the better at this point. Say something about having to be at a shoe sale or that you need to clean out the refrigerator. By suggesting that you have something mundane to do instead of seeing him, you’re silently telling him that he matters less than those things now. This is a wonderfully effective tool for spurring a man’s interest on. No man, on the face of the planet, wants to feel as though cleaning an appliance is more important than being with him.
If you want your ex back then you have to start following simple tips like the ones listed above. Rejection may be a difficult and challenging emotion but right now it’s your friend so utilize it, make the most of it and show your boyfriend that two can play the rejection game.
Getting your ex boyfriend back is an art form and until you know the exact steps you need to be taking, you’re skating on very thin emotional ice with him.
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